You have done the work. Something is still off

You went to therapy. You talked about your childhood, your marriage, your stress. Maybe it helped. Maybe it helped for a while and then stopped. And you are still waking at three in the morning, still crashing at two in the afternoon, still feeling a dread you cannot argue yourself out of.

Here is what most therapy never examines: whether something physical is driving it. Thyroid function, iron stores, blood sugar stability, cortisol rhythm, gut health, and hormonal transitions each produce symptoms that are clinically indistinguishable from anxiety and depression. Not similar to. Indistinguishable from.

Being told your labs are normal does not settle the question, because standard reference ranges are built to catch disease, not to describe how a person feels.

This self-check takes about two minutes. Your answers stay in your browser and are never sent to us. At the end you will see which physical systems your answers point toward, and which specific lab markers are worth asking about.

A free self-check from New Birth Family Counseling

Is it anxiety, or is it your body?

Thyroid function, iron, blood sugar, sleep architecture, gut health, and hormones all shape how you feel emotionally. Most therapy never looks at any of it. This check takes about two minutes and shows you which physical systems are worth a closer look.

Your answers stay in your browser. Nothing you select here is sent to us or stored anywhere.

Common questions

What people ask before they book

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Can anxiety actually be caused by something physical?

Yes, and more often than most people are told. Thyroid dysfunction, iron deficiency, unstable blood sugar, disrupted cortisol rhythm, B12 deficiency, and hormonal transitions each produce symptoms that are clinically difficult to distinguish from anxiety: racing heart, dread, irritability, poor sleep, difficulty concentrating.

This does not mean anxiety is never psychological. Most often it is both. But when someone has done real therapeutic work and the symptoms have not moved, the physical side is worth examining rather than assuming the therapy simply needs more time.

My doctor ran bloodwork and said everything was normal. Why do I still feel this way?

Standard reference ranges are built to identify disease, not to describe wellbeing. A result is flagged when it falls outside a range wide enough to encompass most of the population, which means you can sit at the edge of normal for years, feel unwell the entire time, and never be told anything is wrong.

There is also the question of what was ordered. A single TSH value does not describe thyroid function completely. A normal hemoglobin does not rule out low iron stores, because ferritin can be depleted well before anemia appears. Often the issue is not that the labs were misread. It is that the relevant markers were never run.

Can a thyroid problem cause anxiety or depression?

Thyroid dysfunction is one of the most common physical contributors to mood symptoms, and it is regularly mistaken for a primary psychiatric problem. An underactive thyroid tends to look like depression: fatigue, mental fog, cold intolerance, low motivation, weight change. An overactive thyroid tends to look like anxiety: racing heart, restlessness, insomnia, irritability.

A fuller picture usually requires more than TSH alone, which is why free T4, free T3, and thyroid antibodies are worth asking about when symptoms persist.

Can low iron cause anxiety, low mood, or poor focus?

It can, and it is one of the most frequently missed contributors, particularly in menstruating women and in children. Ferritin reflects stored iron, and it can fall low enough to produce fatigue, poor concentration, irritability, restless sleep, and restless legs well before a standard blood count shows anemia.

Because a routine panel often includes hemoglobin but not ferritin, someone can be told their bloodwork is fine while the relevant marker was never measured.

What does gut health have to do with mood?

The gut and the brain communicate continuously, largely through the vagus nerve, and the majority of the body's serotonin is produced in the digestive tract. Inflammation in the gut is not confined to the gut.

Practically, this matters when someone notices their mood tracks with their digestion, when particular foods reliably change how they feel, or when longstanding bowel symptoms sit alongside anxiety or low mood. Treating one side while ignoring the other tends to produce partial results.

Is this self-check a diagnosis?

No. It is educational. It organizes your own answers into a pattern and shows you which physical systems those answers point toward, along with the markers commonly examined in each. It does not diagnose anything, it does not replace medical evaluation, and completing it does not create a clinical relationship.

What it is good for is turning a vague sense that something is wrong into a specific question you can bring to a clinician.

What do I do with the results?

Take them to a conversation. That can be with your primary care provider, who can order testing and review it with you, or with us if you would like help understanding how the physical picture and the emotional one fit together.

Either way, arriving with specific markers to ask about tends to produce a more useful appointment than arriving with a general sense of feeling unwell.

Does this mean I do not need therapy?

No, and we would be cautious about anyone who told you otherwise. Most people carrying anxiety, low mood, or the aftermath of something difficult benefit from therapy. What we are describing is not an alternative to that work. It is the part that often goes unexamined alongside it.

New Birth Family Counseling is a clinical practice first. We provide individual therapy, child and teen therapy, EMDR and trauma work, and couples intensives. The physical lens sits alongside that, not in place of it.

Do I have to live in California?

For therapy, yes. Psychotherapy is regulated by state licensure, so we can provide therapy to California residents, in person in Mission Valley, San Diego, or by telehealth throughout the state.

Wellness and integrative consultation is available more broadly. If you are outside California and looking for therapy, tell us and we will help you think through how to find someone licensed where you live.

Is my information private?

The self-check is scored entirely in your browser. Your answers are not transmitted to us, not stored, and not retained anywhere. If you choose to give your name and email at the end, we receive only those details and the option you selected, never your responses.

If you go on to become a client, your clinical records are protected under the usual confidentiality obligations, which we will go through with you in writing.

If you are in crisis, call or text 988 for the Suicide and Crisis Lifeline. If this is a medical emergency, call 911.